Thursday, May 20, 2010

[knowledge vs ignorance]

Lately, everyone keeps disappointing me. I don't know if I'm just loosing faith in humankind or just tired of all the bullshit that's going on. The way that some people thinks disgust me. Disrespectful would be a good word to describe their actions. For instance, lately, I've took consciousness of how the expression ''that's gay'' can hurt the people I love. I've never used that expression, but a lot of my friends use it and doesn't realize the impact those words can have in the society. If no one stop and explain to them what it does, they'll just continue using it and being ignorant. But as I try to sensitize everyone around me, some keep arguing that since they don't use that expression against the gays or in a homophobic sense, it's OK to use it. NO, that's the point, it's never OK to use an expression that discriminate a group of person. That makes them less important to others, that separates them. We use that expression to describe something ''stupid''. So being gay is being stupid? They'll answer no, it's just an habit. Just an everyday saying. I try to explain to them the meaning behind it. They get frustrated and starts arguing with me. I'm just doing my job. Trying to help, to prevent. A lot of young teenagers and young adults commit suicide because of words like that. They get the perception that it's bad to be gay. It's dirty, unmoral, against the laws of nature, etc. but it's NOT. It's perfectly normal to be gay. It's not a choice someone would make. Why would someone choose to be different and made fun of? We need to take those stereotypes out of the common mind. The perception that some people have can influence the others that are ignorant as well and those people will influence again some others. If nobody does something to try and kill that expression, it will stay and spread like powder. We are the voice of the future. They are too. We need to explain and make them comprehend that their action are seen and influential. Parent, educator, political figures, celebrities, etc. should understand that the children are listening to every words that are coming out of their mouth and imitates them. The media is the most influential process that exist in the 21th century. As time goes by, I'm loosing faith in humankind. They never learn, and those who does are trying their best, but they are crush by the majority, who don't give a shit. We can only hope that the ones that does learn will go far and do something about it. If not, are we doomed ?

3 comments:

  1. Yes we are doomed...
    We're the first generation that is not the opposite of the previous one. In fact, we're even worst than our parents when it comes to materialism, prejudices, dumbfuckness, etc. Don't expect anything good to come out of it...

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  2. Well said, Bernard! (C'est Danica S by the way!)

    I think you make a great point. I know I used to say it a lot and I don't nearly as much anymore. I'll probably stop altogether after reading this. It's good to be conscious of the things that are coming out of your mouth. Most people don't even think about what it is they're saying and as you said; they don't realise that they might be hurting/offending the people around them.
    I think it's excellent to read this because I never gave it much thought before. I was in the mindframe that "everyone else says it so it must be okay.". However, that is obviously not the case. Why do people in today's society follow every little trend like a herd of sheep? A person says one thing and it blows up into extreme proportions. That is to say, five-ten years ago, no one would say "that's gay". Now it's socially acceptable to do so because EVERYONE does it. I don't like the thought of our children's generation coming into such a society and every little action against it (e.g: your blog!) is definitely a step foward. Keep doing what you're doing, boyo!

    Have you ever thought about public speaking?

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  3. Wow B. it was pecfect.
    Tout ce que tu as écrit à été pensé. Point par point et tu as tellement raison. Désolé je n'ai pas osé écrire en anglais. Tsé moi et mon anglais...c'est comme une paire de jeans small pour une dodue. Ça fit pas ensemble. Hahhaa

    Mais j'aime VRAIMENT ce que tu as écrit.

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